before you have sexual relations with a guy, ask him what a clitoris is and if he knows where it is, if he doesn’t, love yourself and find someone who does


- Maddox and Pax escorted their mom down the aisle,while flower girls Zahara and Vivienne threw petals from the family´s garden.

Proving that there´s no such thing as too much frosting.Pax took the lead on baking-and decorating the home-made wedding cake

If your presence doesn’t add value to my life then your absence will make no difference.

Lessons Learned in Life (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

Ignorance was bliss.


Y’all think I like to be mad all the time, but I PROMISE you life was so much easier before I realized how fucked up America is.  Being racially aware is not a walk in the park and something to sit around mooning over like, “wow, I just love being pissed at white people and white government and white law enforcement and white standards of beauty and whitedy white whiteness all day.  I hope I can be pissed tomorrow too!”


Sex positivity means many things, but it does not mean that all sex is positive or enjoyable.

“Crazy” is such a convenient word for men, perpetuating our sense of superiority. Men are logical; women are emotional. Emotion is the antithesis of logic. When women are too emotional, we say they are being irrational. Crazy. Wrong.

Women hear it all the time from men. “You’re overreacting,” we tell them. “Don’t worry about it so much, you’re over-thinking it.” “Don’t be so sensitive.” “Don’t be crazy.” It’s a form of gaslighting — telling women that their feelings are just wrong, that they don’t have the right to feel the way that they do. Minimizing somebody else’s feelings is a way of controlling them. If they no longer trust their own feelings and instincts, they come to rely on someone else to tell them how they’re supposed to feel.

Small wonder that abusers love to use this c-word. It’s a way of delegitimizing a woman’s authority over her own life.